Positive and negative points to your being 4100 miles away.

Positive

1. I can sleep diagonally across the bed.
2. I can go anywhere I want.
3. I'll starve to size 10.
4. No snoring.
5. Solitude.
6. Half the washing and ironing.
7. I get to do all the driving.
8. Shopping for myself is easier.
9. I can eat for two at family events.
10. Can't think of a positive for this one
11. Reading - I am doing more of it.
12. I can have the light on all night.
13. Its quicker to get to work.
14. I'm sleeping more and more refreshed at work.

Negative

1. I don't want to sleep diagonally across the bed.
2. I've got no one to go anywhere with.
3. I'll starve to death.
4. No snogging.
5. Talking to myself.
6. No one to do all the ironing.
7. No one to share the joy of a car wash with.
8. I spend too much money.
9. Family events are missing someone - you.
10. No one to warm my back.
11. Can't think of a negative
12. Waste of electricity.
13. I don't want to start getting to work any earlier or I will find myself doing more jobs to fill the time.
14. Still, I would rather have you here and get to bed earlier.

I will add to this as the weeks go by.